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<p>To the OP,</p><p>Many women have traumatic birthing experiences (hospital births, c sections, interventions galore) and often times the result is a numb vagina. This can be helped with somatic dearmoring, the use of a jade egg and other internal excercises, what this does is help reconnect with one's body and will enable her ability to let go and go deep. I recommend someone trained in somatic dearmoring, this is not for the faint of heart as it can be very painful but it's well worth it for everyone IMO because the body holds trauma, trauma of all sorts.</p><p><br></p><p>I have my own favorite practitioner but over the years I have utilized both males and females for the process. Someone asked me the other day if I knew of one on the East Coast but I don't. For men the process can be done solo as well and often involved the use of sounds. I have given away free books on the subject alone.</p><p><br></p><p>Yesterday in my erotic female empowerment class (which can be applied to males as well) the first lesson/exercise was one of gaining clarity, homework is to state in 4 sections, what is Hot to Cold/Yum factor/Ick factor, what I don't like, what I want instead, what that looks like,why don't I have what I want. This exercise can be applied to business/romance/sex/etc as a starter for designing what you do want.</p><p>I personally would caution against adding in third (sex) parties but I am biased that way unless you are up for fast processing (jealousy issues coming to a head, abandonment, etc) which can be a good thing in the long run.</p>
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